If you’ve ever thought, I’ll feel more confident if I just write out exactly what I’m going to say, you’re not alone. But here’s the truth: scripting every word isn’t just unnecessary—it can actually make speaking harder.
Why Relying on a Script is a Problem
A script can trick you into thinking there’s only one “right” way to say things. That’s simply not true. One of the best things about public speaking is that you can express your message in a million different ways, and as long as your audience understands it, you win.
Here’s why scripting can actually hurt you:
- It creates pressure to say things exactly as written, making natural delivery difficult.
- It makes it harder to handle interruptions, technical issues, or audience questions.
- It can keep you from developing your impromptu speaking skills, making Q&A sessions stressful.
What Actually Works
Instead of writing a script, focus on: 1. Key Points – Know the main ideas you want to cover, but don’t memorize exact phrasing. 2. Stories & Examples – People remember stories more than perfect wording. Have a few go-to examples ready. 3. Message Clarity – What do you want the audience to walk away with? Make sure you know your main message(s) by heart, but don’t worry about memorizing more than that.
A Real-Life Example of Why Flexibility Matters
I once had a 4-hour workshop scheduled for a company in Lexington. It was supposed to start at 12:00, but at noon, the only person in the room was the coordinator. Turns out, the employees had a calendar invite for 12:30! As I sat there waiting, I had to mentally adjust my session plan on the fly, cutting 30 minutes of instructional material while still making sure my audience got what they needed.
If I had been relying on a rigid script, this would have been a nightmare. But because I was prepared without scripting, I had the flexibility to adapt in real time.
Try This Instead
Next time you’re preparing for a talk, ditch the script. Instead:
- Outline your key points.
- Identify the stories or examples you want to use.
- Practice speaking naturally, adapting as you go.
You’ll be way more prepared for real-world speaking challenges—and your delivery will feel far more authentic. Flexibility beats a rigid script every time!